Gay & Lesbian

I DO!

June 26, 2015
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America for the win! The #SCOTUS finally determined that same sex marriage is legal across our entire great nation. As it should be. Or should I say, as it should have been all along. At the end of the day, we, as Americans, have bigger issues to focus on than arguing against love. Let’s talk […]

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A really long rant about the Duggar molestation accusations.

May 22, 2015
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I’m often asked to write about all things LGBTQ on this blog. It’s why I have this blog, “to be an integral voice of todays culture.” Which I really suck at because I often pass because the subject is too political, there is no win/win or it’s too judgmental. Really. I am often asked to write […]

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It’s just a cake, not a religious sacrament.

February 7, 2015
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  Earlier this week the Oregon couple that refused to bake a cake for a lesbian couples wedding was fined a boat load of money for discrimination. I’m honestly a little torn about that. You’d think I would be firmly planted in the “MAKE THEM PAY” camp, but there is a part of me that […]

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20 years ago today I met this girl…

December 23, 2014
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Actually I lied. It was a few months prior to that when I met the girl, but 20 years ago today that she agreed that we would give this thing a whirl and see where it takes us. I think we both made the right call. In life, love and all things that take time to blossom and become […]

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Happy 6th Anniversary!

August 9, 2014
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Cheryl and celebrate a few anniversaries, not because we have a lot of special dates, it’s more because the laws keep changing and allowing us more and more rights as the years pass. This year in December we will celebrate our 20th anniversary. That’s a big deal y’all! When people ask us how long we […]

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Google Can’t Tell Its Lesbians Apart.

June 1, 2014
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Melissa Etheridge got married to Linda Wallem of Nurse Jackie fame. If you haven’t seen the show, you should because it’s genius. Anyway… Out of curiosity I Googled Melissa Etheridge’s kids, because she has four from two different baby mama’s and you never hear anything about them and I was wondering what they were up too. Apparently […]

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Prized Possession

February 7, 2014
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NaBloPoMo Prompt: Friday, February 7, 2013 Show Me Fridays: upload an image to your blog (without words) of your most prized possession.

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Respect. That’s the Bottom Line.

February 4, 2014
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Today’s NaBloPoMo prompt: Tuesday, February 4, 2013 Do you think it’s possible to ever truly see the world from another person’s perspective, or are we held so tightly to our own way of viewing the world? Oh boy. This is a tough one. I’m going to take the cop out answer and say it depends […]

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Keeping Your Mouth Shut on Facebook

January 2, 2014
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Daily Pressure Topic: Keeping Your Mouth Shut on Facebook. Two weeks ago during the Duck Dynasty Fiasco one of my Facebook friends posted that she “felt like she was being persecuted for being religious and that she was tired of being overly criticized and judged for being a Christian.” Ahem. Let that little gem sink in for a […]

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Happy 19th Anniversary!

December 24, 2013
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Yesterday was a blur of iPhone updates (Thanks Jimbo!) Haircuts for the nephew (he wanted to look like this guy. I think we nailed it!) A trip to the beach (Thank you gorgeous Southern California weather!) And a holiday boat cruise (Thanks Dave & Margie!) So by the time I realized it, the day had flown […]

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